That's how I see the "soul" or spirit... being passed down in the memories of the people you touched while alive. She lives on through me and my brother. :)

My husband can be great about some things. He loves just about everything I cook and doesn't care if the house is clean or not. He'd rather I be happy.

But, then again, he won't help clean house and drives me nuts with other stuff. It all evens out in the end. And I tend to criticize everything I cook. I can always see how I can make it better and since I don't follow recipes it's never the same twice, lol.